A new study suggests that for a significant number of players, in-character chemistry in tabletop roleplaying games is leading to real-world romance.
The research, conducted by the professional Game Master platform StartPlaying, surveyed 1,000 regular TTRPG players in the United States. It found that more than one in four (28%) said an in-game romance led to genuine attraction outside of the game.
These findings suggest that the collaborative storytelling and shared emotional journeys common in games like Dungeons & Dragons can build a unique form of intimacy. Of the players surveyed, 43% reported catching real-life feelings during gameplay. For couples who already play together, the hobby appears to strengthen their bond, with nearly half (48%) stating it had improved their relationship.
This study arrives as more people seek meaningful connections away from dating apps. The data indicates TTRPGs may offer a more organic way to develop relationships, with nearly a quarter of respondents currently dating someone they met through gaming.
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Devon Chulick from StartPlaying said,
Community is a fundamental human need, and play has always been a profound way to bring people together. This study underscores just how transformative community and play can be.”
While the romantic angle is a standout finding, the survey also reinforces the broader social and mental wellness benefits of the hobby. A majority of players (57%) have made some of their closest friends through roleplaying games, a figure that rises to 78% for Gen Z. These friendships are often maintained through the structure of regular game sessions, with 75% of all players crediting RPGs with helping to keep their friendships alive.
The stress-relieving aspects of roleplaying were also strongly represented in the results. Nearly nine in ten players use the games to mentally reset, and over two in five cite stress relief as a primary motivation for playing. This aligns with the 76% of respondents who feel that TTRPGs have, at least occasionally, helped them process trauma or emotional growth.
For many, it seems, the fantasy worlds built on the tabletop are providing a solid foundation for real-world relationships, offering a rare mix of structured social time, emotional vulnerability, and shared adventure.
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